Archive for January, 2009

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Three words of terror: My tummy hurts

January 31, 2009

Warning: This story contains bodily emissions that you may not want to read about.  If that pie-eating scene in Stand By Me grossed you out, you’ll probably want to stop reading right now.  Seriously, click away.

There are three words which should strike fear into the hearts of any parent: My tummy hurts.  I heard them for the first time tonight and now know why.

First, a bit of background.  Besh’s Zayde and Nonni are in town this weekend and, as any weekend with grandparents ends up, spoiling him to no end.  The morning began with a trip to IHOP where he had pancakes, red syrup (as reported by his yellow shirt), and sausage.  He was very happy.

After breakfast, I took him to his cousin’s birthday party where he had a car-cake (cupcake but in the shape of a car) and some water.  We played.  He was very happy.

Then I took him to lunch at Wendy’s.  He didn’t eat any fries, which isn’t that uncommon.  But he did have two chicken nuggets and he wanted a vanilla frosty.  I agreed, mostly to make sure he stayed happy since it’s been a wonky couple of days for him.  He bet me he could eat the whole thing (it was a small), and he did.  Again, very happy.

We came home and he was sleepy, so I lay down with him in his bed and we both passed out.  I woke up 30 minutes later.  He slept for 4 hours.  An amazing nap.  I was very happy.

Woke him up, he came downstairs and cuddled with Sara a bit, then went peepee on the potty.  We asked if he needed to poop since he hadn’t all day and his stomach looked a bit puffy–it had since breakfast we commented.  But he said he didn’t need to, so I didn’t force it.  He went and sat down at his table in the living room to drink some juice.

I was finishing up washing my own hands when I saw him walking to the bathroom, his hands on his tummy.

“I need to go poopoo,” he cried.  ”That’s why my tummy hurts.”

Oh no.

He stepped into the bathroom and did his best oral impression of Mount Vesuvius.  It went everywhere.  His step-stool, the tile floor, my socks, his socks.  He looked at it in shock, then decided to erupt again.  This time it splashed onto the diaper genie, the baseboards, the wall, his jeans, and his shirt.  

I managed to reach around the pool and lift him over to the toilet, where he proceeded to unload a few more times while Nonni and Zayde started laying down paper towels.  I undressed him, sat him on the toilet, and the careful process of clean-up began.  He seemed better, but his stomach was still a bit puffy.

I took him upstairs for a bath and all was well.  Put him in pajamas.  He said he didn’t want dinner; I didn’t disagree.  

“Daddy”? he asked as I put his pajamas on.  ”Can we watch Elf?  That would make me happy.”

Like I’m going to say no to that.  So we go in the theater, turn on Elf.  I went to check some news on the computer and he ran over to me.  Thinking he needed a cuddle, I picked him up.  Then I heard it, the biological equivalent of a shotgun load getting pumped into the chamber.

Now, a predicament.  I have a toddler on my shoulder and I’m perhaps a dozen steps from the bathroom.  I need to get there quickly, but not so quickly so as to set off the vomit-bomb strapped to my chest.  It’s a delicate equation to figure out.

It is also unsolvable.

Five steps from the bathroom, the bomb goes off.  I see, smell, hear, and feel it.  My face is, fortunately, turned an inch in the right direction or else my fifth sense would likely have gotten in on the party.

Now in the bathroom, he erupts a few more times into the toilet.  I clean him and strip off my own shirt (my Super-Obama shirt now coated, that was a short honeymoon).  Get him cleaned up and then have him sit and watch Elf with Zayde while I go down and shower.

Sara looks at me and says those six words you always want to hear from your wife.

“There’s vomit in your chest hair.”

I agreed and took a shower.

A quick call and a long shower later and the doctor has told us to give Besh Pedialyte or ice chips.  She says it’s probably a stomach virus and there are some nasty ones going around that are pretty violent for about 12 hours.  I did a quick trip to the store, got some Pedialyte and crackers and head back.  He’s still watching Elf, which is good.  I gave him a few sips of Pedialyte, which he promptly puts into the garbage bin I’ve lined with plastic bags (a small miracle).  His stomach is still hurting, but he just wants to cuddle. So I let him lie on me and he falls asleep soon after (it was nearly 10 at this point).

So now there’s some laundry to do, and I’m not convinced this night is over.  

Oh, and the doctor said that after the 12 hours of throwing up, there’s typically a few days of diarrhea.

Hmmm…maybe a trip to Barnes & Noble tomorrow is a bad idea.

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Three short stories

January 27, 2009

Loading up, since it’s been a while

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Recently reminded of a story from a few weeks ago I didn’t blog.  Nonni and Zayde took Besh to a toy store and were picking out some toys to get him.  At one point he had two toys in his hands and Nonni explained they were getting them both for him.  Besh looked at them, then handed one back to Nonni.

Besh: “No thank you, Nonni.  I don’t need this one.”

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Besh insisted on calling me at work when he woke up.

Me: “Hello?”

Sara: “Hold on–Besh, what did you want to tell Daddy?”

Besh: “Daddy?”

Me: “Hi Besh.  Are you having a good morning?”

“You put the wrong pajama pants on.”

“I did?”

“Yes.  This is penguin pants.  You put on the wrong pajama pants.”

Sara explained that he was wearing the penguin pants but a different top.  And that Besh would not let it go until he could tell me.  Apparently you can mix prints, but not pajamas, in toddler fashion.

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Besh has recently discovered the joy of Green Eggs and Ham, or the Sam-I-Am Book as he likes to call it.  So it’s a frequent request.  But tonight had a new spin.

Besh: “Daddy, you read Sam-I-Am Book?”

Me: “Okay.”

“You read it super, super fast, okay?  That’s funnier.”

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Cello is the new guitar. Oh, wait, now it isn’t.

January 23, 2009

Got a call this morning from Sara to relay this story.  By way of background, I think I’ve mentioned Besh’s fascination with all things guitar.  He has at least half a dozen from tiny to nearly full sized.  He loves other musical instruments too, including keyboards (got one), drums (electric pad), banjos (NOT guitars and don’t even think about confusing the two), and many others.

This morning, Besh was watching some Curious George before going to school.  In the introduction, a woman is playing a cello.

Besh: “Mommy, I want that cello!”

Sara: “You want a cello?”

“Oh yes.  I love cello.  I don’t want guitars anymore.”

“Really?  No guitars?”

He confirmed.  She thought it was funny enough to call me.  So he got on the phone.

Besh: “Daddy, you know the cello?”

Me: “The cello?”

“Yes.  I love the cello.”

“So I hear.  No more guitar then?”

“No.  Just cello.”

“Could be difficult–I don’t think they make toy cellos.”

“Yeah.”

Then Sara got back on the phone.  While we were laughing and talking, he picked up one of the guitars and started playing.

Sara: “So guitar is back on, Besh?”

Besh (in background): “Yes.  I love cello *and* guitar.”

Yoyo Springsteen, watch out.

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Toddler science fiction: Soylent Springsteen

January 21, 2009

Besh likes guitars.  This is putting it mildly, as he is close to being addicted to them and all musical instruments.  At last count we had 3 close-to-full size guitars that range across the toy/real spectrum, a handful of smaller play guitars, at least one guitar that has been classified as a banjo, an electric drumpad, a full-size keyboard, and several percussion instruments or toys that can be used as percussion instruments.  Side note: all toys can be used as percussion instruments.

So it hasn’t been too surprising that over the last few days Besh has wanted to watch our recording of the Inaugural Concert that HBO showed on Sunday night.  He especially likes the opening number done by Bruce Springs.  You probably know him as Bruce Springsteen, but this was before he was given a Besh Name which, you must admit, is a bit peppier. 

Besh is not content to watch Bruce sing The Rising, instead he grabs his electric guitar and plays along with the Boss.  Last night, while playing a particularly intense duet, Besh stopped and sniffed the air.

Besh: “I smell him.”

Me: “You can smell him?”

“Yes.  I can smell Bruce Springs.”

“What does he smell like?”

“He smells like people.”

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Chapstick is the new Windex

January 16, 2009

Besh is obsessed with Chapstick.  Not sure why, but on the days he remembers the miracle wonder wax (90% of the time) he carries a stick with him all the time, applies it to his lips approximately every 84 seconds, and requires its usage before key activities such as using the potty, going upstairs, or removing his shoes.  Despite this persistent and amusing habit, the Chapstick obsession still has the ability to amuse as last night’s conversation shows.

Besh took the cap off one of the Chapstick containers.  The orange one.  Not that this matters to anyone but Besh, I’m simply stating for the record.

He rubbed his finger on the chapstick.

Me: “What are you doing?”

Besh: “I’m using Chapstick.”

“On your finger?”

He smiles, nods, and then rubs his Chapstick-coated finger on his nose.

“My nose is chapped.”

Between efforts to not laugh, I tried to explain that his nose was not chapped.  I was informed otherwise.  Then, out of deep concern for the drying impact on my own schnoz, he insisted on using Chapstick on my nose (via the finger-application method, of course–direct application would be unsanitary).

I don’t know if you’ve ever attempted to explain to a three year old that:

a) Your nose is not chapped

b) Noses don’t get chapped

c) Your nose does not need Chapstick

If you have not had this conversation, let me stop you right now.  Because I can tell you that you have no ability to win on any of these points.

For the record, my nose is not dry or cracked this morning.

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Stream of toddler consciousness

January 15, 2009

There are plenty of times you look at a toddler’s face and see the wheels turning.  It is far too rare that you get to hear all those wheels clanking into each other.  Sara was lucky enough to get one of those rare events the other day in the car. 

Sara: “Besh, do you like sitting with Ramsay at lunch?”  (Friend of his at school)

Besh: “Oh, yes.  Ramsay is a friend.  Ramsay eats chicken for lunch.  I like chicken, too.  Ramsay has cookies for lunch.  Cookies with raisins.  I’ve never had cookies with raisins.  I like cookies.  I like to try cookies with raisins, Mommy.  I like snap peas too.  Ramsay has snap peas for lunch.  I like some snap peas for lunch.  Snap peas are delicious.  You get the snap peas?  You put them in my lunch, please, Mommy?”

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Potty training? Check. Now Batman.

January 11, 2009

Over the holidays, Sara got me the Blu-Ray of Dark Knight along with some others.  Besh, now enthralled with the theater, has seen the movie case and asked to see it.  I’ve told him it was a super scary movie and maybe when he was older.

Then, today, the day of his big birthday party, this exchange.

Besh: “Daddy, you know the super scary movie?”

Me: “The Batman movie?  Oh yes.”

“I see it.”

“I don’t know about that.”

“No, it’s okay.  I’m three years old now.  I’m older.”

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The real reason dinosaurs went extinct

January 7, 2009

Besh has recently discovered the joy of watching movies in the home theater.  Current playlist includes Hairspray (the musical), Mary Poppins (which he unfortunately no longer mispronounces as Mary Popsins because that was awesome), Elf (he loves the spaghetti scene), and one of the Land Before Time movies (honestly, I’m not going to look up which number).

Over the weekend, Besh had just finished a long play session and the Land Before Time movie and it was time for dinner.

Me: “Besh, before we go down for dinner let’s go peepee on the potty.”

Besh: “I don’t need to.”

“Are you sure?”

“I’m sure.”

“It’s been a long time since you went peepee.”

He pointed at the screen.

“The dinosaurs didn’t go peepee the whole movie.”

I think all five of my readers can appreciate how much it took for me not to make the extinction joke right then.  I saved it for the blog title.

Me: “You’re right, but as soon as the movie was over they all went peepee.”  {wheels spinning wheels spinning wheels spinning}  “Because they all did a good job holding it just like you!  So let’s go peepee like a dinosaur!”

“Yeah!  Yay dinosaur peepee!”

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Advanced toddler phone etiquette

January 6, 2009

Yesterday, being Besh’s third birthday, he received a number of phone calls and messages (thanks to any of you reading for them, by the way).  Early in the evening, Gamaw and Opajohn called from California and had a conversation with Besh.  Although Besh likes to hold the handset, we had it on speakerphone because sometimes he likes to hold the handset upside down.  I prefer to think he’s making a philosophical statement about the equivalence of listening and speaking in a digitial commuication-filled world, but other people find it hard to hear, so speakerphone works.  This is why we heard the conversation.  And also why it was misheard on the other end.

Besh: “Hi, Gamaw!”

Gamaw: “Hi there, Besh!  Happy birthday!”

“Thank you!”

“Are you having a good day?” … more conversation clipped … “What are you doing today?”

“Birthday with Nonni and Zayde!”  (They had come in for dinner and presents)

“Are Nonni and Zayde there?”

“Oh, yes!”  He then walks over to Nonni and hands her the phone.  “Here, Nonni, it’s for you.”

Nonni and Gamaw had a brief conversation before Besh got back on the phone.

Gamaw: “Besh, have you been playing with your puppy?”  (Gamaw and Opajohn got Besh a robotic puppy for Chanukah that responds to voice commands and, I’m convinced, will one day rise up and overthrow us all)

Besh: “Oh yes.”

“Does he shake hands?  Does he give you his paw?”

“He speaks!”

“He what?”

Speaks!”

“Oh he does?”

“Oh yes!”

“Then when I come I’ll be sure to bring my perfume!”

Besh furrowed his brow, walked over to Nonni and handed her the phone.

“It’s for you again.”

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And on the morning of his third birthday, we decided to prepay law school tuition

January 5, 2009

This just in from Sara, currently escorting Besh through his host of birthday calls.

This morning, as Besh and Sara were lying on Besh’s bed, Besh was playing with some cushie bath trucks he got for Chanukah from Doccy (Sara’s grandmother).  Then he started throwing them off the bed.

Sara: “Besh, please don’t throw those off the bed.  That makes Mommy nutty.”

Besh: “I’m not throwing them.  I’m not.  I’m just dropping them.”

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